THE TRAUMATIZED HEART AND THE VITAL HEART
©2004 Linda Marks

THE TRAUMATIZED HEART
THE VITAL HEART
reduced coherence--loss of sense that life is comprehensible, manageable and meaningful
high coherence--experiences life as comprehensible, manageable and meaningful
defended against love
open to love
untouchable or less touchable -- emotionally and physically
touchable -- emotionally and physically
rigid
flexible
limited self-expression
free self-expression
afraid of intimacy
welcomes intimacy
isolated and disconnected
well connected
tense and hypervigilant
relaxed and at peace



Linda Marks, MSM, has practiced body psychotherapy with individuals, couples and groups for more than twenty years.  She is the founder of the Boston Area Sexuality and Spirituality Network and  is the author of
Healing the War Between the Genders: The Power of the Soul-Centered Relationship (HeartPower Press, 2004) and Living With Vision: Reclaiming the Power of the Heart (Knowledge Systems, Inc, 1989).  She can be reached at LSMHEART@aol.com, www.healingheartpower.com or (617)965-7846.